3 Mistakes To Avoid With Women In Nightclubs
If you've been to a lot of clubs and stayed long enough to navigate the place with your eyes closed, you'll notice three things about guys that most people don't because they're too busy dancing and drinking. By knowing these three things, hopefully you'll improve your game and up your chances of meeting a person you actually like. Not only that, by improving your socializing skills, you get the most of your night out by enjoying the company of other people aside from your group.
Guys get too tense in the club
It may be difficult to believe but most guys in the club are actually very tense. They focus too much on what to say to a girl rather than have a good time. And before a guy can even say what they want to say, the girl has already left because it took too long for him to approach her. Guys fail to cut themselves some slack at the club. Instead of focusing too much on how you can pick up a girl, why not have a good time with your friends instead? After all, isn't having fun the whole point of going to a club? You'll get so comfortable around your friends and in the club that you'll have no problem talking to that girl at the other table. Make sure to remember these three F's: Friends and Fun First.
The odds are against you
Women are smart enough to know that they shouldn't easily just give in to a one night stand just because a guy bought her a drink. You need to know ahead of time that you might be included in the list of guys she's going to reject. So what do you do when you know your chances are small? First, lower your expectations. Second, be different. Instead of helping the club profit from you by buying a girl more drinks than you can afford, why don't you try talking to her in a casual manner? No, that does not include cheesy pickup lines. Once she realizes that you're far more interested in what's on her mind than in her pants, she'll lower her guard. You might even make a connection most people fail to have when they're trying too hard to play games at the club.
Guys give up too soon
Just because you got rejected by a girl doesn't mean it's already time to go home. The club has a lot of potential and you shouldn't limit yourself just because one girl outwitted you when you dropped that terrible pick up line. That girl will probably forget about you the next day anyway. If you got a "no" from one girl, move on to the other one. Just make sure it's a girl that you're actually interested. Few connected conversations are much better than many disconnected ones.
By knowing these three things, you should know by know what part of your approach you should change. Remember, no rejection is personal. It's probably just the approach that did not work. And if all else fails, don't forget that you're in a club and that you should just take it easy and have fun.
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